Every successful relationship requires some moves on the part of both partners. But it’s a common notion that women are complicated beings and very difficult to please.
But the truth is, making your girl feeling loved and happy is neither complicated nor difficult if you’re willing to put in a little effort.
So if you care enough about your relationship and the happiness of your partner, here are 10 tips to make your girl happy!
- Tell her that you love her and tell it often
Since love is the string tying you two in the relationship, always keep rekindling the fire by expressing your love for her. Even if she knows exactly how much you love her, never take it for granted and keep reminding her the same every now and then. It never hurts to express your love a bit more as it only assures her of your feelings for her and makes her feel cherished.
- Get Her Thoughtful Gifts
Often guys get girls expensive gifts or just gift cards for her to buy herself something. But it’s a much better alternative to get her a particularly thoughtful gift, even if it is an inexpensive and simple one, but specific to her likings. If she has a love for wine or whiskey, gift her wine or replenish her bar with some must have whiskeys. If she loves a particular sort of chocolate, get that for her!
- Listen To Her
It’s impossible to feel important in your partner’s life unless he takes the time to listen to what you have to say about any given situation. Acknowledging the existence of her point of view is the first step in building a trusting partnership. Learn to give her a patient hearing even if you’re in a hurry or upset as it has the potential to completely transform your relationship and resolve almost all potential problems.
- Respect Her And Her Decisions
Respect is one of the most integral parts of any successful relationship as love is essentially incomplete without it. Always treat your partner with respect no matter how angry or upset you are. Make a line in your mind that you don’t cross no matter the circumstances. Also, just listening to her point of view isn’t enough. It’s just as important to treat her individual decisions with respect irrespective of if you agree with her or not. Even if you want to register your disapproval it’s very important to do so respectfully.
- Make An Effort With Her Friends and Family
Make the effort to get along with the other important people in her life like her family, friends etc. This will not only make her life a lot easier and simpler, it will also reduce the clashes you have over other people. Making an effort to maintain a good relationship with these people is also a huge gesture to show how much you care about her and how much effort you’re willing to put in for her.
- Do Your Share Of The Housework
In spite of all the feminism in the world, records show women still do a much larger share of the Housework as compared to men. This is not only because of the perceived notion about it being the women’s responsibility to do Housework but also men’s way lower capacity to even recognize it when something needs to be done around the house. So if you live with your partner, in case you are unable to understand how you can help, just ask her. Not only will this keep her from feeling taken for granted, but you cannot imagine how much the simple gesture will mean to her!
- Keep Surprising Her
Surprises are a great way to keep any girl happy. They are very refreshing and exciting, not just for whom it is meant but also for the person planning it! So keep your everyday life alive with a small or big surprise every now and then. It can be something as small as coming home with your girlfriend’s favourite cheesecake and flowers or as big as planning a special trip with her. You can also gift her a set of lingerie or a sexy bullet bra to spice up things in the bedroom.
- Give her your attention
The entire point of spending time together is focusing solely on each other for a while without being interrupted. So when you’re with her, give her your undivided attention to make the most of your time together. It’s no use spending time with her if you’re going to be on your phone checking and responding to emails and messages. Don’t make the mistake of ignoring her. Give her your attention and you’ll see her blossom with happiness.
- Spend Time With Her
Your time is probably the biggest gift for your girl. Unless you invest sufficient time in your relationship, it’s going to fade over time and ultimately become hollow. Spending time not only lets you grow together as a couple but also keeps rekindling the love between you two. You can do it while cuddling under a blanket while sipping creamy hot chocolate at home or on a relaxing long drive or a stimulating motorcycling ride, whatever floats your boat!
- Make her feel secure and cared for
Since the entire point of a relationship is to love and care for each other, it’s your job to make your girl feel secure and cared for. Be there when she needs you, make lofty promises and keep them and never break her trust. A small gesture like a sudden hug or an unexpected romantic text is all it takes to make your girl feel loved and cared for.
Since you’re here reading this article, it’s easy to assume that you care a lot about your relationship.
So now that you have a good idea as to how to keep your girl happy, incorporate these tips into your mind and life from today to have a successful relationship that makes every onlooker jealous.